If you missed Part 1, you can find it here. As a third-grade teacher, I found reading about all grade levels useful. Chock-full of math games, ways to build reading comprehension, and effective tools to squash test anxiety, Brain Stages is a useful reference for teachers and parents alike.
It covers all areas of childhood, is fun, and gives parents ways to connect with their children. Each chapter focuses on a grade so you can read what you need.
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Even better, he adds dozens of difficult questions that he has received over the years that speak to each point, with concrete solutions that easily tie back to his main themes see paragraph one above. Also, he uses his own early parenting failures as examples, giving him even more credibility. Let me say that I know first-hand how difficult parenting can be, and that I appreciate meaning I both understand and value that there are millions of different parenting styles and norms.
It will, if nothing else, put things into perspective and help you to figure out what you think is most important. Just what my family needed! This book has already change the way our kids behave them selves in the first week or two of following the information in this book. My wife and I are no longer societal parenting sheep! We have been awoken thanks to this book and our children will be the ones to prosper. And I think the overall theme of the book is right on the money.
Feb 14, Chase Quarterman rated it it was amazing. Despite having comic sans on the cover, this is a good, refreshingly old-school view of parenting. Some really great, important things I needed to hear, and at times funny. Also some nutzo bits.
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Mar 18, Michelle rated it really liked it Shelves: parenting. I should probably read parenting books all the time. Not because I don't know what I'm doing eh, that's kind of true , but just because parenting is a job that takes constant work, a job that I hope to always progress at, and there are always so many reminders and so much support in parenting books. Husband and I read John Rosemond's article all the time and usually agree with him and each other, so I knew what I was in for with this book.
He focuses his attention on the parent-centered family I should probably read parenting books all the time. He focuses his attention on the parent-centered family as opposed to making kids the center of your lives, your houses, etc. For the most part, I do agree with John Rosemond. Reading this book was a helpful reminder, especially for a mom of a toddler, that I need to speak with more authority. Be clear and concise! It also got me thinking about discipline punishments don't have to be fair , chores already there , money we'll get there eventually , and even how much time I devote to playing with my toddler.
Toddler Girl does play by herself for good stretches of time when I'm doing things around the house cooking and cleaning , but it's rare that I ask her to let Mommy have reading time, etc. That's okay to do? While I like to spend more than 15 minutes in the morning and 15 minutes in the evening giving her my undivided attention Rosemond says that amount is okay, which I feel like, REALLY?!
Go play by yourself now. That doesn't happen as much anymore and Rosemond is also disappointed with the amount of adult-driven competitive activities. His solution is to give games back to the kids. That's pretty much all he says about it. Don't sign up your kids for activities and let kids have their games back.
But John Rosemond, this is not a practical solution. Should my kid alone not be in activities and somehow coral the other kids to the sandlot?
I don't think TV, etc. Yes, I have noticed my kid gets cranky if she gets too much screen time. But my pediatrician recommended no more than 2 hours and that's what we stick with even if you don't believe I'm counting honestly, John. I've seen her grasp concepts through songs that TV characters do that I wouldn't have bothered to teach her yet because I thought she wasn't ready waiting her turn, colors.
Or there have been lessons I did teach her that TV just reinforced. Or she took an interest in something because of the combination of TV, books, and stuff I've showed her, and that kicked us off in the right direction hello, potty-training. I don't want my kid to watch constantly, and I'm certainly not like that one mom that wrote in, admitting that her under 2-year-old was watching six hours of TV , so I'll only half agree with John Rosemond on this one. In general, Rosemond says things I don't think quite apply to toddlers, so you have to read it and decide what's right for you and your family, now or later.
For example, instead of TV, send your kid outside to make mudpies. But John In the end, I have the belief that everything will turn out okay with my kids, even if I don't do things perfectly. As Rosemond points out a couple of times, he had different parenting philosophies when his kids were young. They watched TV when they were young.
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But he now goes with this philosophy and though he started later I think his kids were roughly 10 and six? Also, I think Willie, John's wife is the main brains behind all of this and I salute her. If you want to read some old-school, down-to-earth parenting advice, go with Rosemond! Jul 21, Paul Smolen rated it really liked it. Rosemond does not provide footnotes, I have to assume that he is accurately summarizing and paraphrasing the research which he references. Now to some of the solutions to parenting problems that he stresses in the book. Rosemond provides what he sees as easy answers to many behavior problems parents may encounter.
If you have a child with ADHD, he believes that the TV and video games are likely the culprit; he recommends getting rid of them and the problem may be solved. If your child is self-centered, Dr. All these circumstances may be true for certain children, but certainly not all. Readers need to be for warned that this book is full of Dr. Rosemond style. I am sure his blunt advice will rub many readers the wrong way. I think the reason for this is Dr. I am sure Dr. Rosemond understands how important leadership is to parenting, but I think he needs to articulate it more as he gives parenting advice.
In my opinion, that would make a good book into a great one. I give him four Doc Smo stars on this edition. Until next time.
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Jul 13, Di rated it really liked it. The only issue I have with Rosemond's books is if you happen to read all of them, after a while they are a bit repetitive. Now, when my pediatrician actually referred me to his books when my son was born, it made me feel even better about my choice of using his principals. Plain and simple common sense. I love the fact that he tries to hammer in the idea that the en The only issue I have with Rosemond's books is if you happen to read all of them, after a while they are a bit repetitive.
I love the fact that he tries to hammer in the idea that the end goal And we need to give them those tools, build as a strong foundation, during their short time with us. They are not kids forever and we need to prepare them for that.
Those "tools" range from being able to stand for what is right, having integrity, a strong work ethic, balancing a check book to being able to do laundry, mow the lawn, even cook a simple meal, etc. His thought process is not for everyone, that's for sure. But it works for me. It is about creating last memories with your children, loving times, fun times, etc focus less on the material things and create memories as a family The only way a child is going to learn to stand on their own two feet is by putting some weight on their shoulders. Aug 03, Shellie rated it liked it.
I wasn't sure I was going to learn anything new from this one, but it was recommended so I gave it a go. For people like my husband for whom parenting just comes intuitively, it might not be helpful. I saw it as more of a reminder of the best way to parent, not exactly a fountain of new information. Rosemond, as if he was jotting notes for the book while looking through my kitchen window during dinnertime, does make some good points about child-rearing do's and dont's.
He stresses first and forem I wasn't sure I was going to learn anything new from this one, but it was recommended so I gave it a go. He stresses first and foremost that today's families have sacrificed the importance of the husband and wife roles in favor of the roles of "breadwinner" and "mother". When children's needs and wants are placed above the needs of the husband and wife relationship, the family becomes unbalanced and the self-esteem and security of the children actually suffer. By treating the family as a democracy instead of establishing the parents as benevolently authoritative, we as Americans are accidentally raising self-centered, irresponsible future adults.
Although some of Rosemond's wording delved into the realm of "psycho-babble" to me, I enjoyed the comparisons Rosemond made between the use of coddling, persuading and threatening to gain obedience from our children to how a referee or a business enforces rules.
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We should just hand over the rules without emotions and pleading, etc. The refs do or the game quickly gets out of hand. Overall, interesting and a good reminder to not feel guilty for putting my husband and me where we belong: at the top of the priority list.
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Oct 06, Leigh rated it it was amazing Shelves: parenting. I wish I had found this book two years ago. I have just had the best two weeks with my nearly four old since she turned two.
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